Know a Vet? We do. In fact, he’s an original American Hero I’ve been lucky and blessed to call him my Grampa.
Grandad, as he likes to refer to himself, turns 90 later this year. His wife of 60+ years passed on a few years back. I know how much he misses her. Its getting harder for him to get around, and that is frustrating…which includes no more golf, one of his favorite activities.
Ahhh, what a life…a life of significance.
If a certified, distinguished Veteran of Foreign War is how his military career ended, it sure didn’t begin nearly as glamorous. Rising through the enlisted ranks from Private to Staff Sergeant, and ultimately to an Officer, Lieutenant John Abraham participated (literally) in the first wave of D-Day landings, at 6am, Normandy’s beach head designated ‘Utah’.
Grampa was awarded a Bronze Star and received two Purple Hearts as a result of this service. When I asked him many years later to send me a copy of his award, he wrote a note and sent along with the copy of his citation. Herein was honor, humility; it was incredible. It made an immediate, profound impact on me.

He wrote, and I still remember it from memory, “Kirk, you asked for so Im sending you this citation. It describes my actions in combat as heroic, but I was merely acting in a manner which I had been trained.”
Our family’s patriarch and a role model for me, Grampa is an example to all of what a life well lived looks like. A truly significant life also means well balanced.
As a business man, member of the community and the church, a life of faith, service and honor. Not unlike his military service, he progressed and excelled in each area, i.e., Clerk to Vice President of Insurance Company, and a Deacon at Fee Fee Baptist church. On a personal note, I can further attest that he was present at all but a few of my baseball, basketball, and football games as a kid. By my recollection, I can count the number of times he missed on one hand. Now that’s impressive!

An original American Hero
A significant life also has blemishes. No one’s perfect. As an example, I recall him receiving much notoriety for being the only fan at ANY of my little league games to EVER receive a Technical Foul -resulting in free throws for the other team.
True story. LOL
Thanks Grampa for your service, but thanks even more for coming home!! We love you…and thank you for all that you’ve done for us.
Kirk and Family
PS: You may also like these 2 posts I did for Memorial Day weekend
Marines: http://easteam.wordpress.com/2009/05/22/this-memorial-day-weekend-09-never-forget/
Flags of our Fathers: http://easteam.wordpress.com/2009/05/22/will-history-remember-lst-779-will-you/
3 Examples +2Groups +1Answer =’s 1Valuable Biz Lesson
If you are in Business and have Clients/Customers, you’ll appreciate this video. However, if you’re Consulting, B2B Sales, or a similar position you will more than IDENTIFY with this, YOU WILL ABSOLUTELY LOVE IT! Trust me! Two Groups referenced in the title are 1) those that have had this experience & 2) those that haven’t…YET!!
Actually, we did a blog posting on this scenario earlier this year ~ based on a REAL WORLD example. Unfortunately, said post was also REALLY BORING! It was extremely cathartic. If you’re brave, bored or having hard time sleeping, here’s a perfect link for you: Lost your Marbles?
I quickly discovered that this scenario, albeit extremely common, was/is surprisingly difficult to accurately communicate. This is another reason I can not only identify 100% with its content, but also with it’s fantastic delivery.
Bottom Line: when a company demonstrates these behaviors, its usually a symptom of much bigger problems… Yup, just the tip of the iceberg.
Stop trying to “fix” them, that rarely works. If you’re a rookie, please dont take it personal, IT’S NOT YOU. Regardless, if you work harder, longer, better, faster, ad infinitum.
Finally, a friend & colleague of mine offers advice which is perfect for these situations, ‘Dont spend Retained time/energy/resources on a Contingency Project’. Remember that people tell you how they want to be treated. The real question is ARE YOU LISTENING?
July 9, 2009
Categories: Business Commentary, In my opinion, albeit sporadic thoughts . Tags: business strategy commentary paradigm approach training conusulting, sales training negotiation buyer seller relationship buyer seller collaborative competitive cooperative . Author: EASTeamBlog . Comments: Leave a Comment